Siblings, Not Half-Siblings

I’ve always been so impressed with our biggest guy, Easton, when it comes to the way he interacts with his younger siblings. When they are babies, I catch him talking and smiling with them. Now that the boys are toddlers, they are constantly wrestling with him.

It makes me laugh, scares me to death, and fills my heart all at the same time.

I prayed for these babies to be loved by their older siblings and in so many ways, they’ve only exceeded my expectations.

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It made me sad this past weekend when Easton said, “I’m not looking forward to the day when Langston is my age and knows I’m only his half brother and not his real brother.”

Part of that statement broke my heart because he’s right and yet it also made me love him so much more because it just proved how much he loves his siblings.

The little guys adore their older siblings. When Easton played tackle football, Langston was obsessed with all of his football gear. He couldn’t wait for the next chance he would get to wear his football helmet.

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These days, even though we are between sports for Easton, Langston insists on wearing his baseball helmet. He wears it so often that I came around the corner the other day and saw Langston on the potty in the bathroom wearing the helmet! I still can’t stop laughing about it. He even wakes up from his nap wondering where the helmet is.

Langston and Riverson love playing volleyball in the living room or kitchen and it makes me smile every time I hear them say, “Ball’s up!” I don’t know if they have any idea what it means, but they learned it from watching Hallie’s volleyball team say it on the court.

I. LOVE. IT!

There’s this thing about “half siblings.”

I hate it.

I know it’s the technical term, but I feel like it lessens the bond between these siblings and I can’t stand that.

Maybe it’s because I grew up as a half sister to my three older brothers. I never called them my half brothers and they would never refer to me as their half sister.

At the end of the day, it’s not about having both of the same parents, it’s about the bond and the relationship created as they grow up being siblings.

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Not “half siblings.”

One day the little ones will know they have a different mom from the big kids and they will understand why Hallie and Easton call me “Jamie.” I’m not looking forward to that day, but I hope by the time that day comes, they will be so obsessed with their older brother and sister that they won’t even blink an eye at that new information.

For now, I’m thankful. I’m thankful the big kids love these little ones so much that they never have any reason to believe they’re not loved the way a full brother or sister loves a sibling.

Some Days Really ARE Just Organized Chaos

Some nights, like tonight, I sit back and think back on our day. Tonight, I came to an immediate conclusion that it was really just organized chaos.

This morning, we barely made it out of the door for MOPS. While I was proud that this girl was dressed so cute in her new outfit, we were still late showing up. Some days the clock moves faster than my kids do when it comes to getting ready. Some days that’s just the story of my life.

Brantley is wearing the pants I made her for the first time and showing off her brand new shirt Katie from KatieDid Gifts made her to match the pants. I couldn’t get over all of the cuteness and she had several people to remind her how cute she was.

Until we got home.

I pulled her out of her car seat and realized a diaper blowout would be sending her whole outfit to the laundry room to be soaked in stain remover. Ugh. Again, story of my life.

The boys gave me a little break in the day while they napped, but once they were up, it was game time. I was really just running in circles trying to keep everything together, while actually keeping nothing together.

A tornado went through our house and things were everywhere in the living room.

My neighborhood friend and Mary Kay consultant stopped by to bring me some moisturizer. She came in to the house and was admiring Brantley. While I was writing my check for my new product, she asked me how everything was going with three little ones. We laughed together when I said, “Well, just look at my house.”

The boys had found the big jug of animal crackers I usually keep in the pantry and had brought it in to the living room to eat. Ok, fine. Keep yourselves entertained with a snack for a minute while I chat with our guest.

Less than one minute later, I turned around and Riverson had one foot inside the jug of animal crackers and was standing up, trying to fit his other foot in there.

Yes, that really happened.

Just as my friend was about to leave, I realized I had ordered the wrong product from her. Yes, she actually just wasted her time coming to my house. We made plans for me to get the product I REALLY needed: face wash.

This evening was Hallie’s choir concert and while I didn’t really want to take the kids with me, I knew I needed to be there, since she had asked if I was coming. I hadn’t made arrangements for anyone to watch them, so off we went.

As the choir kids all got on stage and the sanctuary was silent waiting for them to begin, Riverson said, very loudly, “Oh, dere’s Howie!!”

I armed Riverson with my phone to keep him entertained and quiet in the back row of the church. He tried. He did well. But, the concert was just a little too long for him.

An app he was playing on the phone had flashcards of food. Every time something came on the screen he liked, he said the word, showed us the picture, and then licked the screen to show his approval, over and over again.

With just about 10 minutes left in the program, both of the boys hit their breaking point and Jeff was already in the lobby with Brantley, who had started crying. I took them out to relieve Jeff and let them walk around in the lobby.

Y’all, within minutes, Riverson had ripped off his shirt and was running through the lobby.

Without a shirt.

In the church lobby.

I wanted to crawl in a hole, but part of me couldn’t help but laugh as I chased after him. Even the two ladies volunteering from the church were laughing.

One of the ladies even started talking very sweetly to Brantley and said, “There’s just never a dull moment with you two, is there?”

You should have seen the look on her face when I told her these weren’t my only two little ones. My three year had just gone to the restroom. I’m pretty sure she thought I was crazy.

Somehow we made it out of there and home relatively easy.

I just have one reminder from the evening.

Thanks Riverson.

Some days really ARE just organized chaos.

Thankfully, I get a five hour break tomorrow while they are at Mother’s Day Out. I need to regroup.

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Weekend Recap

We had the big kids this weekend and that usually means it’s a super busy weekend for us, but we love getting to spend time as a big family. The boys LOVE it when they are with their big brother and big sister.

Jeff asked me to snap this picture with all three of his boys cuddled up together. As busy as these boys are, these moments are few and far between. However, since Langston fractured his collarbone, he’s been extra cuddly.

Although, he’s extra cuddly, he hasn’t had much interest in going to sleep and I think it’s mainly because a) he’s three and likes to fight us about naps and b) he’s having a hard time getting comfortable enough to get to sleep.

Right before this picture, he told me he didn’t need a nap and said, “Look Mommy! I’m awake!” I guess he ate those words. :)

On Saturday, we got to Langston’s last soccer game as late as we could, on purpose. We knew it was going to be super hard having him watch all of his friends play soccer and then tell him he couldn’t play. He was pretty unhappy about it all, and since the game was right around nap time, it wasn’t a recipe for a sweet kid, that’s for sure!

Our team was getting trophies today and we had all planned to take pictures after the game. Langston loved having everyone cheer for him as his name was called to get his trophy! He was so proud!

That afternoon, my mom came to pick up the boys. The trophy was the first thing he wanted to show her and decided it even needed to go in the bag with him. He got to her house and carried it around everywhere he went for the first hour.

Even Riverson would look at it and say, “Wow!!” So fun to see them appreciate a trophy like that, when I thought for sure he’d be too young.

I hope this is just the first of many trophies we collect!

Saturday night, Jeff and I were able to call in a last minute babysitter from our neighborhood, for Brantley, so we could make a surprise birthday party for one of our neighborhood friends.

It was so fun to get away with just this guy! Almost eight years and three babies later, and we can still have fun together! LOVE that!

Miss Brantley is still the easiest baby ever and I just adore playing with her. One of my favorite things to do with her is bath time. She loves her bath and smiles the whole time.

Now that the weather is starting to get colder, I worry about her long hair staying wet after her bath. I’ve decided to start blow drying it to help it dry faster.

She LOVES it! She’s quiet and relaxed the whole time that warm air blows across her hair. It sounds like an awesome experience and I think she’d agree, but this is what her hair had to say about it all. :)

Crazy hair day, I guess. :)

She’s still cute, even when her hair is sticking up in every direction!

Trick or Treat for Halloween 2012

I’m not sure how it’s already November! The time is flying by! Halloween snuck up on me, just like Riverson’s birthday did. I knew we HAD to trick or treat but I didn’t put a ton of thought in to what they were going to wear.

To be quite honest, there was a time yesterday, when they were being naughty, that I contemplated not even taking them to trick or treat. Jeff gets off work so late now and I knew I was going to have to do everything myself. Three kids under 3 1/2. I wasn’t looking forward to it.

But, I got over my pity party, sucked it up, and went to work trying to make them as cute as possible.

I even made a quick little vlog to link up with MamaKat’s new Vlogging Workshop. I’ve been doing more vlogging lately, like yesterday, and I think it’s fun to find other vlogs people have done.

Here I am introducing you to my cute babies on Halloween night.

I swear my face was not cut off, when talking about Langston’s “sponsors,” BEFORE I put the video on YouTube. Oh well, I always have something to learn about making my videos better.

We met up with several of our neighborhood friends to trick or treat just like we did last year. We love this group and these girls have become great friends of mine!

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After all of our picture taking, it was time to hit the sidewalk! Fortunately, we only hit a few houses before Jeff could join us.

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checking out his stash

We decided to call it a night and head home once everyone was good and worn out. As I walked in the back door, I got a phone call from Hallie.

The big kids were with their mom for Halloween night but they decided to trick or treat in our neighborhood and she was wanting to stop by with her friends. One of them needed to use the restroom.

The boys were so excited to see her and it was fun to see all of her cute friends dressed up. I actually wish I had a picture of them, but I did snap a quick one of them digging through their candy.

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Yeah, they were using pillowcases for their candy!

We had a fun night.

But, I have to be honest. I’m glad we’re past it. It’s stressful!!

We’re Always a Busy Crew

On Fridays, after school, I like to take our big kids for a fun snack. The little guys never disagree, either. Wonder why that is? :)

A little Yumilicious makes everyone happy!!

Our big event on Saturday was at a go-kart track. We were celebrating my nephew’s 11th birthday and our big kids were in heaven. They all LOVED IT!!

Langston and Riverson stayed home with Daddy.  They would have loved being there, but I would have wanted to rip my hair out having to chase them around everywhere.

Liam, the birthday boy

 

It wasn’t really Brantley’s “thing” but she sure was a good sport! :)

 

Peeking in on her under the blanket

To be honest, it wasn’t really Hallie’s thing, either, but she loved it too! She may look tough with this helmet on but you wouldn’t know she had me curl her hair before we left! Ha!

 

Easton

My Brother, Trey

We all had a great time hanging out around the go-kart track!

Sunday afternoon, we kicked off Easton’s fall baseball season with a game.  The weather was amazing, so I was happy to take all 3 of our little people to watch.  The boys have a blast since they are free to run around as they please.

I love that Easton enjoys playing catcher so much.  It was my favorite position to play when I was his age, too!

Along with all of the fun things starting for the kids, there’s somthing starting up for me, too!

MOPS!!

This morning was my first meeting and I loved it!!  It was great to meet the girls in my discussion group and hear our pastor speak about parenting.  It’s tough getting all three of our little people out of the door on time, but it’s so worth it when I get there!

We got to make these fun cups for our craft and they gave me this precious burp cloth as a baby gift for Brantley!  I’m blessed to meet with this great group of women twice a month.

And tomorrow, while the boys are in school, Brantley and I will be doing lots of this!  I know she won’t always want to do this with me so I’m going to soak it up while I can!

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Crayola Back to School Giveaway

One of the brands that always comes to my mind when I think about school supplies and back to school is Crayola!

Anyone remember the 64 count of crayons with the sharpener in the back of the box??

When I was in school, it seemed like the bigger the box of crayons you had, the cooler you were.  Anyone else feel that way back in the day??

Well, Crayola isn’t just about crayons, colored pencils, markers, and paints anymore.

My family was lucky enough to get a package of their newest goodies to try out a couple of weeks ago.

This package included:

  • Crayola Bright Fabric Markers
  • Crystal Effects Window Markers
  • Crayola Window Mega Markers
  • Wild Notes Index Cards
  • Wild Notes Sticky Notes
  • Wild Notes 1 Subject Notebook
  • Dual-Sided Dry-Erase Board

We loved doodling in the Wild Notes Journal because everything we wrote came out in rainbow colors.  So fun!

However, the first thing our big kids went after (and even our toddlers) were the window markers.  I gave them free reign of the windows on our back doors and they didn’t hold back!

I’m sure you can tell exactly which picture was drawn by our toddlers. :)

They loved it and I loved seeing their creativity.  As a mom, the best part was knowing how easily it would wipe off of my windows! :)

It’s something we can do again and again!  Love it!

Crayola definitely made everyone in my house VERY happy!  Want to learn more about Crayola?  You can find them at www.crayola.com, as well as Facebook, and Twitter.

How would you like to win your very own Crayola Back to School gift pack??

It includes the following:

  • Crayola Bright Fabric Markers
  • Crystal Effects Window Markers
  • Crayola Window Mega Markers
  • Wild Notes Index Cards
  • Wild Notes Sticky Notes
  • Wild Notes 1 Subject Notebook

Follow the instructions below using Rafflecopter to enter.  This giveaway is open to US residents only.

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Disclosure:  The information, products and additional Crayola Back-to-School gift pack was provided by Crayola® through MyBlogSpark.

Instagram Recap

It’s been a crazy busy couple of weeks.  We’ve been on the go almost nonstop.

So much so, that I feel like my house has been neglected and even when we are home, I can’t stay caught up on laundry, dishes, dusting, etc.

Lanston got this train set from my dad for his birthday and although it never looked like this for long, I had to take a picture after Hallie and Easton built it up for him.  I left it in the middle of our living room for a week and a half like this.  Drove me crazy but they all had so much fun with it and it kept them so entertained!!

They never even asked to have the TV on since they were having so much fun with the train! :)   So thankful for that gift!

Another birthday gift I’m thankful for is this big thing my mom got Langston.  It’s given us hours of fun outside!

Best $29 spent all summer!

After driving home from our Baton Rouge trip on Monday, it was water park day on Tuesday.  Pretty much one of the hottest days yet.

Since I already had childcare planned out with my mom for the little ones and plans were made with their friends, I had to make it work.

IT. WAS. HOT!  With this big belly, it made it even hotter, but I spent most of the day in the shade and made several trips to the lazy river and the wave pool.

I take our big kids and my nephew once a year to the water park and I wanted to get it checked off of our list early in the summer before my due date got any closer.  This year, Hallie and Easton both got to bring one of their friends from school.

Obviously I really had no desire to go to the water park this far into my pregnancy, but I made a promise to our big kids and I couldn’t let them down.

Just seeing how much fun they had together was worth it. :)

Their friends ended up spending the night and the next day with us.  It was a busy couple of days, for sure!

On Wednesday, I hit 35 weeks and if you saw my vlog post for Girl Behind the Blog, you already saw this picture.  But, if not, here’s a peek at this growing baby girl.

This guy loves to snuggle up to my belly and always likes to lift my shirt up to find my belly button and pat my belly.  I take advantage of EVERY opportunity he wants to snuggle with me!

Check out my most recent shopping find for baby girl.  These were on clearance at Target for $4.  They are precious and she I HAD to have them. :)

Yesterday morning, I snapped this sweet picture of the boys hiding in the cabinet under Jeff’s sink.  We have to keep that cabinet empty because Riverson loves pulling everything out of our cabinets and drawers in the bathroom.

I LOVE watching these brothers play and laugh together!  This is when I’m thankful they are so close in age.

I linked up with the SITS girls Instagram challenge.  This week, they’ve been offering Instagram tips and yesterday’s tip might be my favorite one.  I’m headed to make a Facebook cover photo using a collage of my Instagram pics.  Neat idea, right??

We’re getting out of the house today to do a little shopping for some summer necessities.  I think I hear Chick-fil-a calling our name!

Hope you all have a great weekend!

Be sure to check out the giveaway I put up yesterday, especially if you are in the DFW area!!!

And come back tomorrow so I can show you some cute crafts I just finished up!

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Family Road Trip….Kinda

My brother, Randy, and I always talk about the next time we are going to get together, although we usually never know when that will be.

His son, Rollins, is 10 months older than Langston.  As a matter of fact, I’m so fortunate to be on the receiving end of all of his hand-me-down clothes.  It’s fabulous!

I knew my time for traveling was limited, with baby coming soon, and there were really just a couple of weekends that would work out for both of our families.  Fortunately, this past weekend worked for both of us, so I loaded up the kids and we were off.  Sadly, Jeff had to work and couldn’t make the trip with us.  I’ve honestly never driven on a family vacation {it’s Jeff’s thing} and after driving from Dallas to Baton Rouge, I’d be ok to not do it again for a VERY long time, especially if it involves crying babies in the back seat.

We had the best time just hanging out with family.  We probably looked a little redneck with our blow up pool at the bottom of the playground slide and slip n slide just on the side of the pool.  I don’t care, we made some memories and had a blast!!!

Randy tried bowling Riverson down the slip n slide.  We were both worried he would cry, but he got up, laughed, and walked back to Randy with his hands in the air.  He wanted to do it over and over again.

He’s a pretty fearless little boy.  Scares me to death.

We had the best times just hanging out in the backyard watching the kids play!!

I can’t believe I didn’t take any group shots, but we stayed so busy playing!

Not too many little boys can look this awesome in a pair of pink goggles!  I couldn’t stop laughing at them on his little face.

Langston even got brave enough to go down the slide a time or two.

Whenever we weren’t outside, this is where these three wanted to be – watching movies!  It was precious to see the way they played together and just loved being around each other.

The big kids had a fun time, too!  They got to go to the local water park on Saturday and a movie after church on Sunday.  They were happy!

Yesterday, before we left, I snapped a couple of quick pictures.  Riverson is missing from the picture because he wouldn’t sit still.  Rollins’ older brothers were missing because they had football practice.  Nevertheless, I wanted to get a quick group shot of the kids.

And of course, I waited until the last minute to try and take a good picture of my brother and me.  I really love this guy and he is always making us laugh.  I’m not sure I know anyone who is more of a smart aleck, but he definitely keeps me laughing. :)

I hate that we live so far apart, but I DO love how easily we reconnect when we get back together.

8:00am. Don’t judge. ;)

I don’t really like traveling with little kids for 7 hours straight in the car, but I am so thankful for the big kids who were such a big help!  I was so thankful to get home to my husband and sleep in my own bed!

Now, I’m looking forward to Randy coming to Dallas to meet his new neice, after she makes her arrival.

I’m so thankful for sibling bonds and fun with family!!  We had a blast!

Now I can cross “road trip” off of the summer list and start getting ready for baby girl to be here in a month!  Can’t believe it’s sooooo soon!

Sibling Love

We are right in the middle of a road trip to my big brother’s house in Baton Rouge.  We had to come without Jeff since he had to stay home and work so that meant I loaded up the car with 4 kids and myself to make the haul over to the next state. :)

We are having a great time hanging out with our family but I sure do miss my husband!  And, there’s just something about having my little ones in their own beds.  It just makes everything run much smoother. :)  Nevertheless, they are having a blast with cousins.  I can’t wait to get my pictures on the computer and share everything we’ve been up to.

We’ve had the big kids with us for the past week and Langston and Riverson are loving having their big brother and sister to play with.

I just love when I see them bonding or being sweet to each other.

Last weekend, we blew up our $29 Target pool, filled it up, and let the kids have at it.  There was lots of fun to be had and they made the most of it. :)

We actually have a real pool in our backyard, but it takes a LOT longer than other pools to get warm in the summer since it’s covered by a tree most of the day.  {so disappointing!}  Hopefully it will be ready for us to hang out in soon.  But, I love that the boys can run around in this pool and not have to worry about who knows how to swim and who doesn’t.

It’s much better on a mamma’s nerves than the big pool! :)

Although I don’t really LOVE the age gap between our big kids and little kids so much (8 and 10 years difference), it is what it is.  I guess it helps me to appreciate the times when they actually do love on each other or even have fun together.

Jeff and I had maternity pictures taken by my sweet friend, Brooke, this past week.  I can’t wait to show them to you!  If you want to see them before I put them on the blog, there’s a sneak peek on Brooke’s Facebook page.  While you’re there, feel free to give her page a “Like.”  She’s very talented!

While we were down the street getting pictures taken, we left the little boys with Hallie.  When we got home, she had some pretty darn cute pictures to share with us, herself! :)

These pictures are sure to make you smile!

 

I LOVE LOVE LOVE seeing signs of love between the kids.  It doesn’t happen all of the time, so I cherish it when I see it.

I think sibling love is one of the greatest bonds and I’m so glad our kids get to experience it!

I have three brothers who are all about 12 years older than me, so I pretty much grew up an only child.  I always wished I had a sibling closer to my age, but I wouldn’t trade my brothers for anything! :)

I hope you had a great weekend!  Be on the lookout for our Baton Rouge pictures and say a prayer for me!  I’m taking the big kids to the water park on Tuesday.  And yes, I’m about 35 weeks pregnant!  ;)  Crazy, I know, but it’s our yearly tradition. :)

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So it Begins

Summer, that is.

Our big kids got out of school for summer, on Friday.  Easton finished up his elementary school run and now he’s headed on to middle school.  It’s hard to believe how fast the time has flown by.

There was a cute graduation ceremony for his class on Thursday evening and it was WORK keeping our little ones quiet and happy, but we made it. :)

It truly seems like yesterday when we were talking to him about how much fun Kindergarten would be!  He’s come a long way and we’re so proud of him!

Next year, Easton and Hallie will both be in the same school, except he will be the little 6th grader and she will be the big 8th grader.  It will be VERY interesting to see how that whole dynamic plays out.  Hopefully we will be pleasantly surprised in the way they get along.  :)

After school got out on Friday, Easton had a 5th grade swim party, so I wanted to take Hallie to do something fun.  And, shopping it was!  She left the mall with some cute things and while we were in there, I came out with one of the greatest pictures ever!

He saw me try this cute headband on and immediately wanted to try it on his head, too.  Really!  He WANTED to have it on his head.  Then he wanted me to take his picture.  I just wanted to make him happy.

Swear, y’all. ;)

I sent it by text to Jeff and his response was, “Um, no!”  Ha!

I am going to keep this picture very well protected because one day I know I will need it again. ;)

Love that boy!!

Speaking of boys, it’s hard for me to write a blog post without sharing something the boys did.  Check out this 6 second video.  It definitely makes me laugh!  This is the boys preparing for the fall.  Or, every fall, for the next who knows how many years.

Can you tell we do that a lot? :)  Langston actually asks Jeff to do it for him.

Our busy weekend was topped off with a friendly game of baseball between our baseball team and all of the moms.  I did take part in the festivities last year and had a great time, but with a growing belly (31 weeks along), I thought it was best to sit on the sidelines and cheer on my girlfriends!

The competitive side of me hated sitting there just watching!  Hated!

Jeff played umpire and it was pretty funny!  He complained about getting hit by balls, but I think he really loved it.  Two other dads pitched to make it fair for the two teams.

My boys had a blast, just hanging out and being outside, among everyone.

After the game was over, we all made our way to Babe’s Chicken.  I know Babe’s is just a DFW, Texas thing, but y’all, it’s heavenly.  {If you live near DFW, go NOW!}  It’s perfect down home cookin’ for this pregnant mamma!  I could eat to my heart’s content and not feel guilty about it when I rolled out of the front door.  And, that’s exactly what I did!

The other perk is it’s loud, so it’s not bad to bring your loud toddlers. ;)  No, honestly, I was really proud of the way the boys behaved.  We hate taking them out to dinner lately, but they really did great!

The big kids will be with their mom the first two weeks of the summer and we will all reunite for two weeks starting Father’s Day weekend.

This is a big week for us!  Langston is turning THREE!!  Yes, three years have passed since I got that new title of Mommy.  It gets better with every passing day, but it would be so much better if he would just pee pee in the potty!!  ;)

That’s big on our agenda over the next few weeks.  I’ll keep you posted!

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